{"id":243,"date":"2004-06-03T13:13:41","date_gmt":"2004-06-03T13:13:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/vallentyne.com\/blog\/?p=243"},"modified":"2006-08-27T19:45:24","modified_gmt":"2006-08-27T19:45:24","slug":"nikki-wrote-a-wistful-poem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/2004\/06\/03\/nikki-wrote-a-wistful-poem\/","title":{"rendered":"Nikki wrote a wistful poem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nikki wrote a wistful poem on parenting and middle age that I like and think is really good.  She didn&#8217;t want me to post it but I think it&#8217;s too good to not share.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The times have shifted, I never saw it dawn,<br \/>\nThose days we took for granted, are suddenly gone.<br \/>\nOur lives were our own, and times were carefree,<br \/>\nNow we attend funerals saying, \u00ef\u00bf\u00bdThank God it\u00ef\u00bf\u00bds not me.\u00ef\u00bf\u00bd<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdre a hero, the next you are not,<br \/>\nThe thoughts of your child, tie your heartstrings in knots.<br \/>\nA daily routine of questioning your actions,<br \/>\nA balancing act of outcomes and reactions.<\/p>\n<p>Preparing meals for babies born, or love ones lost,<br \/>\nThe circle of life continues, our emotional scars embossed.<br \/>\nThe greatest joy of all, can be followed by loss so great,<br \/>\nTears flow regardless, it\u00ef\u00bf\u00bds true, we all can relate.<\/p>\n<p>A midlife soul search is what has arisen<br \/>\nFrom watching friends that are sick, and parents bed ridden.<br \/>\nAttempts to enlighten the young, and help them realize<br \/>\nThat one day your outlook will change &#8211; Surprise!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Every day is a gift, take it from me!<br \/>\nIt changes so fast, oh why can\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdt you see?\u00ef\u00bf\u00bd<\/p>\n<p>But that is the beauty of being so young,<br \/>\nThere is so much to see, so many songs unsung.<br \/>\n\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdDon\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdt listen to the parents, they\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdre jaded and tired<br \/>\nThey don\u00ef\u00bf\u00bdt understand how this generation is wired.\u00ef\u00bf\u00bd<\/p>\n<p>It\u00ef\u00bf\u00bds the ignorance that makes our children so precious<br \/>\nWhy do we insist on making impressions?<br \/>\nThey will find out soon enough, what makes this world tick<br \/>\nBest to sit back, let them fly, and be there for conflicts<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Nice job, baby.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nikki wrote a wistful poem on parenting and middle age that I like and think is really good. She didn&#8217;t want me to post it but I think it&#8217;s too good to not share. The times have shifted, I never &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/2004\/06\/03\/nikki-wrote-a-wistful-poem\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-news"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/piGNU-3V","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=243"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}