{"id":975,"date":"2007-10-23T16:00:53","date_gmt":"2007-10-23T21:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/2007\/10\/23\/975\/"},"modified":"2007-10-23T16:05:56","modified_gmt":"2007-10-23T21:05:56","slug":"975","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/2007\/10\/23\/975\/","title":{"rendered":"Reality Check&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well it&#8217;s not much this time&#8230;(which is a shocker for me) but rather an observation from a grateful parent.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s amazing how you can always get caught up in your own bubble isn&#8217;t it?  We just spent last night with Jordy ordering the iPod Nano.  This procedure would probably take the average person about 5 minutes max to do (which includes the time it takes to pull out\/locate the credit card).  Anyway, it was so cute, and sweet, and downright refreshing to see a kid in this day and age get SO excited about working hard to save the money, and actually meet a goal&#8230;the old fashioned way.   We&#8217;re so proud of her, and  yes we are biased, but I think she&#8217;s one awesome and amazing kid.  One we are very fortunate to have.  I&#8217;ve been basking in her state of heightened responsibility and consideration for others, which is all too often a rarity for the average 12 year old.  One can only hope that other parents are reaping the same rewards with their pre-teens.<\/p>\n<p>Then you get a reality check&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>This week I found a letter  in Quinn&#8217;s school bag saying that there was &#8220;an incident&#8221; at the neighbouring high school that kept the kids indoors at his elementary school.  No details, and probably just as well.  The day after Jordynn tells us that a grade seven boy left her school in handcuffs.  He was arrested for slugging his teacher.  Apparently this is the same kid who last year was in grade six at Quinn&#8217;s school and put the place into lock down with death threats.  It was rumoured he had a hit list.  Somehow they let that kid move into the high school with the rest of our children.<\/p>\n<p>All this post is meant to say is simply this:<\/p>\n<p>Savour those glowing moments with your kids.  Give them street sense&#8230;encourage them to listen to their guts, and above all, go easy on the good ones when they let you down.  They live in a harsher world than we did and danger is closer than we allow ourselves to believe sometimes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well it&#8217;s not much this time&#8230;(which is a shocker for me) but rather an observation from a grateful parent. It&#8217;s amazing how you can always get caught up in your own bubble isn&#8217;t it? We just spent last night with &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/2007\/10\/23\/975\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-975","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family-news"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/siGNU-975","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/975","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=975"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/975\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=975"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=975"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vallentyne.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=975"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}